I honestly only care about a handful of people.

And even out of that handful, there’s a clear line of who I could live without, and who I couldn’t.

Sex just seems like too much work.

You can love many people, many things, but you can’t be in love with a lot of things. Being in love requires effort, whereas loving is just an emotion held for someone. Being in love is taking everything about yourself, and putting it into something, usually what or who you think of when the word comes up.